Sunday, May 20, 2012

Happy Ending from Simple Dating

Some people say that the closest thing to what you called heaven and happiness is getting yourself a perfect partner. And if you got the worst partner ever you can easily conclude that you have the opposite road to heaven. We all want a slice of true love and the real feeling of being loved back and appreciated for who you are. Isn't it simple, find the perfect love and be perfectly happy? But the thing is, it holds true to some people but not actually real for non-believer. Yes if there are people who believes in magic there are also who does not. So how can one look for the spark and the flame that could eventually be the start of a refreshing romance that could turn out to be life-changing?

Lot of people try the many ways on how they could finally meet the better half they are looking for. Some people are so lucky to find them so easily. They found the perfect match just right across the neighborhood, some were casually bumped into a restaurant and some were met in the workplace where you can have more chances of getting to know the person better because a person spent more time working rather than staying at home. If in some cases it is comes out easy but for others who are hardly struggling to meet the right one, and even if they does find the person, the relationship itself is not working out well, and didn't turn out to be something meant for lifetime.

Is it because we are looking and expecting only the best thing in life? Or is it that we are focusing more likely on the person's perfection? Or are we afraid to take the risk of falling for someone who is not even as close to the reality of the person we wanted to meet? Some of the questions are one of the valid reasons why some of us are always into the brink of having a failed relationship rather than finding the spark of what they called real and true love.

Let us look at it in a very simple manner, if you want to find the right one you might want to try looking for someone who does not look perfect. Because a girl or a boy who is very good looking are very catchy in the eyes of other people, you may easily conclude that having a good looking person beside you will just give more heartbreaks because a lot of people of the third persona will try to steal him/her away from you, and the most good looking of them all will take home the trophy. Looking for someone who is accomplished, rich and famous would be even harder to deal with. But I am not saying that you look for someone who has no dream at all, and is a total nobody what I am trying to imply is to keep your choices easy to find and simple, yet have a character and a morale to keep someone his/her lifetime partner even if everything turns gray and boring, he/she will be staying beside you till your last breath.

So the next time you choose to have a date, start with a simple wish that everything else will end up just fine and hopefully will end up into something better. You might want to find those people while browsing dating site like loveme.ph.


1 comment:

  1. "Let us look at it in a very simple manner, if you want to find the right one you might want to try looking for someone who does not look perfect."

    Made sense to me!

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