You're All Around Me

I really cannot think of any topic to blog today, and yet as I was listening to the radio, wherein the hosts were conversing about a particular topic like "My lovelife is like a __________ because ______________." The DJ's wanted their listener to tweet which funny stuff or serious stuff would fill the blank. And I thought I would want to fill it up, some of the entries say:

"My love life is like a pimple, sometimes it's ok but sometime it hurts!"

"My love life is like a wine, because the older it become the better it was!"

"My love life is like a light, sometimes it is turned on, sometimes it's turned off!"

"My love life is like a beer, it's cold, and super dry!" (LOL)

My entry says:

"My love life is like a wind because you can never see nor touch it but you can totally feel it!" Not so funny but seriously that is how I feel right now. I have been married to a guy who have been away working afar. I just know he is always there to love me no matter how I look like and no matter how I become after all of those years. I cannot visibly touch him and cannot even hug him but for the longest time we have been apart, I could never imagine how he could make me feel loved by simply going online. It is hard to maintain a long distance relationship and yet we still would want ours to work out. And I am so proud to say he never ceases to amaze me with sweet nothings, and with just a simple smile from his face upon seeing me means a lot to me. I may never say that I have a perfect relationship but I know, I am happy with what we have right now.

The Choice For a Happy Life

Base on statistics, there are 7 billions of people inhabiting the planet right now. And funny to think that though there are billions and billions of people there are still lots of people looking and waiting for the perfect kind of love to happen to them. Some just keep on waiting without noticing that the person they are about to love is just the boy who always stays next door. Or the person is just a regular employee in the office, or someone who accidentally lends you an umbrella in the middle of the heavy rain. Actually we will never know when the right one comes, but it is always our choice to make things happen in our lives. We are entitled to be happy at all times even if there are turbulence one in a while but the choice is always ours to make never somebody else choice, but us alone.

If we have the means to look for the person who could be our partner for life, then we better do it. I insist that you find your own happiness in anyway you could, but make sure you are well guided by your conscience. What I am trying to say is you can find your partner who are also single, never steal another beings partner because you won’t like it if it happens to you. If you really are a very busy person then you should try finding your luck in dating sites. Looking for a partner online is not just a trend but it’s advisable to do for a busy world like us. At least in an online set-up you got the chance to know the person very well before you hit it off. You have more chances to see the real person first, disregarding the looks and all the other matter, what is so important is the compatibility and that both parties are having an extraordinary connection. A connection only the two of you could ever understand. And loving and being love is one thing on Earth you can never explain, so quit asking too many why’s on people who are madly in love. Haven’t you heard people who can travel on the other end of the world just to be with the person they truly love? Haven’t you heard stories about crossing the oceans, rivers, mountains, and continents just to be with the person you care about the most? And there are also stories of great people who change the course of history because of the love they had for each other, does Cleopatra and Mark Anthony an example of these odds?

Being in love and being loved back is never a chance it is always a choice, like they use to say about destiny, I rather believe that destiny is the choice we made not just a thing meant for us. We are the one who will carve our lives, so better choose the path and the person who could truly makes us happy and never settles for anything and someone less.